INTRODUCTION
All human beings want to be loved, respected,
regarded, appreciated, needed and noticed etc. Your husband is no exception.
It’s certain that on special occasions like his birthday, your wedding anniversary and
among others, you will be. But express your love in form of a gift, card or
text message as the case may what
about all those lean days, the non event days that make the buck of those days
you spend together, you can brighten those days by trying to make them look
special too. One unbeatable way to let your husband know how much you care is
to shower him with “unexpected little
surprises” that will make feel several feet taller. He will adore you for it.
Your personal imagination, creativity
and intimate knowledge of the relationship will guide you.
1. COMMENT
ON HIS FRESH HAIRSTYLE
This does not mean you should be critic. Don’t tell him how foolish the barber
is by over shaving the hair line.
Rather tell him how positively changed he is. Tell him the hair makes him look
more handsome, that you don’t believe
it was only a haircut. Be careful not let your praises look flattery. The
bible commanded that we should speak honestly and be truthful and not flatter.
The Bible says in Job 32, 20, 21
“I must
speak to find relief, so let me give my answers. I won’t plat favourites or try
to flatter anyone.’’
2. AMUSE
HIM
Can you
make your husband laugh? If yes, then you have the master key to the door of
his happiness. If no, you better learn how to make him laugh.
Watch, listen to other people who make their husbands
happy outside the home and see what they do. Use your own intelligence,
creative mind and the spirit of God in you and before you say ‘chawk’ he will
start shaking with laughter and that will endear you to him.
Remember that laughter
is truly the world’s best medicine- hence it can even heal coldness in your
relationship.
3. BE
UNDERSTANDING
Sometimes, the
husband as a man likes to do certain things that wouldn’t include their wives.
Most wives find it irritating and start being critical and thereby, start
seeing their husbands selfish. Not so, every human being has some secrets, even
you. But you need to make feel trapped
and lonely, so be wise, whatever he chooses to disclose to you, accept and bear
with understanding.
4. WEAR
WHAT HE LIKES
Most wives
make the biggest mistakes that cost them their husbands because of what they wear.
Some clad wrappers around their
breast looking like mothers, not lovers to their husbands. Wears styles and colors he likes. Remember that he sees many
beautiful women outside, so keep
dressing to attract him. A Nigerian
popular preacher, Archbishop Benson Idahosa, remarked that ‘`you are addressed as you dressed.’’ wives should dress well to win their husbands and retain them
because there are so many competitors out side.
5. SEEK FOR
HIS OPINION
Every
husband loves to know how you value his idea. Always ask him for his suggestion in any important decision you make
and respect his idea even though you may not agree with it. It makes him a visible leader and he will love you for that.
6. TOUCH
HIM
Touch your husband often. Men want to be touched, teased, caressed etc. Men are so practical
that to them touching is loving. And when wives capitalize on such belief, they
are bound to have faithful and wide hearted husbands at their disposal. (TO BE
CONTINUED)
This article
used here is from a book titled *501 Hints to Making Your Spouse your Best
Friend. Author: Pastor Dr. Roland Enearu.
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